21-10-2018 09:19 AM
21-10-2018 09:19 AM
Do offer to take the dogs @Former-Member, but you probably need to let the public guardian know, just so they are accounted for, but probably nobody else is actually conscious of the dogs, because they haven’t had to be looking after them.
Its a difficukt time of indecision, so try to sit with it, letting the different options tumble around in your mind a bit, as they are, until a pathway starts to emerge ..... and it might be something completely unexpected, like my move east was. It’s also natural to wonder whether you should have not sold and stayed with your house ..... but you are transitioning to something new now, and while it is scary in the moment, you will look back this time next year and see how it all worked out.
Hugs @Former-Member ..... it’s not selfish to invest in self-care .... it’s necessary ..... be your own best friend and do for yourself what you would do to care for a friend in your position. Can you go for a small adventure somewhere today ? Go visit a parkland or garden centre with a cafe you haven’t been to before, or somewhere beachside ?
21-10-2018 10:25 AM
21-10-2018 10:25 AM
@Former-Member
You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers.
21-10-2018 10:31 AM - edited 21-10-2018 10:45 AM
21-10-2018 10:31 AM - edited 21-10-2018 10:45 AM
Thanks @Former-Member, appreciate that you care. Hope you’re ok.
Dad wanted me to come back first thing in the morning, today, but I can’t. He was really tired last night, but ate the marinated kebabs on stick I brang, and all his meal, and they had condiments within his reach fir the first time (one issue raised with DOC meeting.
@Faith-and-Hope, maybe, just having trouble making it to a much needed shower today. But have had light brekky & pills & watched amazing Derek Prince sermon on healing “righteousness of God...”. started out by saying “you may even be thinking of suicide - don’t do it!” Needed to hear that. I have started packing my car / decking it out a little, to live in. Gotta go 💕
21-10-2018 04:08 PM
21-10-2018 04:08 PM
@Former-Member there are places that deck out vans with a decent bed, mini fridge etc. Having the dogs will bring comfort to you.
21-10-2018 05:49 PM
21-10-2018 05:49 PM
21-10-2018 06:01 PM
21-10-2018 06:01 PM
@Former-Member
This site will give you an idea
https://www.drifta.com.au/van-fit-outs/
I cannot vouch for any of these places - here is a search query for places in NSW
21-10-2018 06:19 PM
21-10-2018 06:19 PM
@Former-Member
Walking with you.
Wish I had something to add.
VARO - Caravan
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